インターナショナル・ピープル

インターナショナル・ピープル

米ヤフー・アンサーズ:16才の男子。話すのが苦手でGFが居ないんだ。

Question :


I'm 16 and never had a girl friend because I find it hard to talk to girls. What can I do? and am i normal?
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I'm self concious, and hate my appearance. I know most girls go for a mix between personality and looks but I am not happy with my looks and I'm far too shy. I hardly speak to any girls and have hardly any female friends. How can I make new female friends (bearing in mind I'm extremely shy and self concious). Also what do girls love about Guys appearance and personality wise?


 Another thing I'd like to ask is do you think it's worrying that a 16 year old male has never had a girl friend before 'cus I really do and I think that plays a big negative against my self confidence! Please help me! What can I do??



Thanks
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best answer:  hey your only a baby yet. it might seem that your old but youve got bags of time before it happens. when you start work and having to mix with lots of other people your confidence will grow.


some people are naturally shy, and they will be waiting for the likes of you to come along. just tell people your just fussy ! 
 as with the appearance, check out some boy magazine and i dont mean ride ones. they have all the latest fashions and hair styles. but just cos its fashion it doesnt mean it will suit you. 
 try things on if you feel uncomfortable with the image it isnt for you. for now though forget about the need to kiss a girl and before long it will happen ....... good luck hun
 
karen